Chelsea Unchained


Was I ready then?

Hello,

I began the blog last year. A million things happened to influence my writing and my life. “Unchained” even needed work. I wanted to present authenticity. Where I was at was not authentic yet. I was still wrapped in resentment. Is that authentic? Perhaps. But it is in resentment that I lose my compass bearings. Fear and insecurity fuel sides of the whole. Can I tell my story in a helpful way when I am still processing where I’m at?

I decided the answer to this is “no”. When I cannot take responsibility for my own part in resentments I am skewing the narrative.

There is something to an Op Ed.

Opinions are how we process stimuli within our belief systems. “It is what it is” can be an easy copout; or it can be the exact fact without opinion. Just because I don’t like something, doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Additionally, the influence of my BioPsychoSocial tints the picture.

Our core values and core beliefs are instilled from an early age. They may change, but only if properly motivated.

There is always much more under the surface.

There will always be lessons. Will I always be within my window of tolerance? No.

It is then my ability to learn and adapt which may carve the next path.

Each level must be secured to rise to the next.

Perhaps today, I am truly ready to share more about my journey without the irresponsibility of truths clouded by resentments.

The Journey begins again. Mistakes will be made. Human Being.

Let’s go!

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